Politics: Is Obama bungling the aftermath?

I give President Obama props for whacking Osama.  But aren't he and his administration seriously bungling the aftermath?  Osama was armed, he wasn't armed, he resisted, he didn't resist, his wife was killed, she was only wounded, etc.  Why was it so difficult to debrief the involved military personnel after the operation, decide what had to be left out for security reasons, and give the public an accurate and consistent narrative?

These conflicting stories, combined with suppression of the photographic evidence, will lead to decades of conspiracy-theorizing.